1: Helping Kids Navigate the Holiday Get-Together Craziness

 



Hey, let’s talk about navigating the holiday madness with kids in the mix.

You know how those family gatherings can get—everyone’s buzzing around, tons of noise, people hugging kids who may or may not be into it. It’s chaos, right? Well, here’s the thing: kids need some breathing room. It’s totally cool for them to have their own space, even if it’s just a quiet corner to chill. And if you notice someone smothering them—maybe Aunt Carol’s on her fifth hug in five minutes—it’s okay to step in and say, "Hey, let’s give them a little break." We’ve got to have their backs.

Another thing: give them the playbook before the madness begins. Like, "Okay, here’s what’s happening today, here’s what I expect, and here’s where you can find me if you need a timeout." Knowing the plan helps them feel grounded.

Now here’s the part I sometimes mess up: remembering that just because the house is full of people, that doesn’t mean my dad duties hit pause. If anything, it’s weird how I can spend the least time with my kids during big family events. Sometimes it’s fine—they’re off playing or getting attention from relatives—but other times, they feel like they’ve been sidelined.

So, while we’re mingling, let’s make sure to check in with them. Whether it’s a quick high-five, sitting down to eat together, or just a “Hey, how’s it going?”—those little moments remind them they’re still our priority, even in the chaos.

Also, let’s not forget to acknowledge their feelings. If they’re grumpy, overwhelmed, or even just done with all the hoopla—let them feel what they feel. Holidays are a lot to process, and not every moment is going to be magical. That’s okay. Sometimes just saying, “Yeah, I get it,” goes a long way.

And honestly, the best part? It doesn’t have to be perfect. The house doesn’t need to look like it’s out of a magazine, and not every activity has to go off without a hitch. The best memories usually come from the unexpected stuff—like laughing at a dessert fail or everyone breaking out into a dance party to burn off the sugar rush.

Holidays are wild, but they’re also the best chance to make those good memories stick. Let’s do right by our kiddos in the mix.


-Nick Metzger

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